When your not trying for a baby it seems like all it takes is that one time to forget your contraception and bam your pregnant! When your trying and you've done all the right things on the right days you convince yourself that you must be. You feel nauseous, exhausted, your boobs are sore and your cramping. Your five days late on your period for Christ sake!
But what if its all in your head? What if that extra weight is well, extra weight? What if your test comes back negative?..You convince yourself its wrong of course! Maybe you tested too early? So you spend another £11 to see that negative all over again. Then the emptiness kicks in. You were sure this month was your month. You wonder how many more times you can actually go through this.
I feel grateful that I've already been blessed with pregnancy, and Rio. My OH knows people that tried for ten years before they conceived. People who have spent 30k trying. How do you keep hope for that long?
By staying positive that's how!!
Negativity is stress and stress can affect fertility. Just enjoy practising, because when I look at Rio I always think 'practice really does make perfect'.
We'd love another baby, id love to be pregnant again, complete our little family. But I'm just taking each day (or month in our case) as it comes. Because if I know anything, its that it will be more and worth the wait!
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I'm sure it will happen soon for you! As you say, Rio is such a cutie and it will be so worth it when he is sweet big brother!
ReplyDeleteI cant wait to watch them together :) theres nothing more than me and Craig love than watching him interact with other kids..its too cute!
DeleteI will be keeping my fingers crossed for you. I know it can be very frustrating waiting and a bit all encompassing but like you say it does help to focus on all that you do have :)
ReplyDeleteAw thank you so much! Exactly..if it happens it happens if it doesn't it doesn't because we're already blessed with Rio so we really cant complain x
DeleteWe are wanting another baby but are just seeing what happens it will happen when the time is right and like you say we have to create perfection again
ReplyDeleteOooh good luck :) new ttc buddy..imagine if we had them close in age again? X
DeleteLovely post, everything will work out in perfect timing :) so nice to see you being so positive though thats inspirational for others too xx
ReplyDeleteI think you've got to be else you get to wrapped up in all the negatives!x
DeleteI think you have a really healthy attitude. I did a test recently and was dissapointed for the negative even though we aren't ttc really. Fingers crossed it's your turn soon x
ReplyDeleteThankyou, I think the negative tests make you realise that you actually want it.
DeleteAwww lovely post :)
ReplyDeleteI always wonder how people get through years of IVF, especially with the cost involved. A friend of mine recently had one last go at it after 15 years of trying, coz her family had a fundraising event to raise the money - they're waiting to find out if it worked but can't afford another attempt *fingers crossed*
Hayley
Sparkles & Stretchmarks - UK Based parenting blog
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Oooh fingers crossed for your friend! We recently heard about a family conceiving twins on their last attempt! Such miracles can happen :)
DeleteWhat a lovely post. You're so right... People who don't want kids seem to get pregnant so easily while others try for so long without luck. But like you say, it really is worth the wait ;) Fingers crossed for you!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much! Thank you for stopping over x
DeleteLovely post, everything will turn out perfect in the end and if its not perfect then its not the end!! :-) xxx
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