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He's here: A birth announcement!

Saturday, 5 July 2014

Rio would like to introduce you all to his new little brother Niall.


Born 03/07/2014 3:47 am
54 1/2 cm
7lb4/7lb6 depending on which midwife did the conversion lol.
Natural labour with the urge to push in bed again..but i'll save that for my birth story!



Throughout pregnancy I had the common doubt at the back of my mind that comes with a second..the "how can I possibly love them as much as the first" doubt. But I can honestly say I have never felt so complete. Watching them together gives me butterflies and melts my heart! I love my little fam-a-lam!

17 days

Wednesday, 18 June 2014

I've spent the last two nights drifting in and out of sleep between 'practice contractions', otherwise known as FALSE STARTS! I think now that I have lost my plug & he's engaged my body is well and truly getting ready. So now not only do I have non painful Braxton hicks in the day..i have period type cramps/backache in the night!

The one thing I love about having a blog is that I can look back to this stage with Rio and realise it was 8 days from losing my plug to having him. I wonder if it will be the same this time? The clearouts etc certainly are. We're currently on day 3. 


I have 17 days til my EDD. For me that is far enough away..i sure as hell cant imagine going 2 weeks over and then spending a few days being induced!


Watching my other two misters together like this still makes my heart melt like it did that very first time they met. I cant wait for Little One to be here to add to that. This time, not only do I get to see Craigs reaction, I also get to see Rio's...nothing will top that!

35 week update / A right old scare!

Friday, 6 June 2014


Its been a while since my last 'official' bump update, mainly because the bump didn't really grow all that much and nothing much changed in terms of symptoms. But this week has took an eventful turn so I thought I would get it all down documented.
I'm still struggling with acid..i think that's one battle that I have to admit I am not going to win. So i'm counting down the weeks instead.

The same goes for pelvic pain. My nights are spent tossing and turning from hip to hip in agony, with plenty of toilet trips thrown in. Before I used to get temporary relief from rolling over/getting up..now not so much!! :(

Since this photo my bump has dropped quite abit, as has baby, resulting in lots of new stretchmarks.

35 weeks also saw the start of random Braxton hicks. I never had these with Rio so it was a totally new sensation. Thursday afternoon came around and I was trying to nap on the sofa but something kept waking me up. I couldn't put my finger on what so I sat up and waited. After a while I realised I was getting the usual tightening's but ALOT more frequently. They wasn't painful at all, other than abit of pressure down below and a twinge in my back as it peaked but I thought id time them on my app anyway. On average, they were coming every 2 and 1/2 minutes and lasting 1 minute+. This went on until my OH Craig got home from work 2 hours later so I jumped in the bath, as apparently Braxton  hicks stop there. Mine didn't, so by 8pm Craig was telling me to ring Triage "just to check", as im  not yet full term. I was told to go through so we dropped Rio off at my mums and arrived.

After the usual obs, I was put on the monitors to get trace of the tightenings/babies heartbeat. Straight away I could see the little spikes and after a while I noticed the babies heartbeat had increased from the usual 164-ish mark to 186, sometimes even 200. Que alarms starting to go off, the heartbeat dipping to about 84 and rising and me waiting in panic for someone to come. There was only 2 members of staff on duty so after what felt like a lifetime of alarms I said to Craig "please get them, its his heartrate"..and bursting into tears. Apparently the monitor has slipped wrong with one of my tightenings and there wasn't anything wrong. The nurse just scribbled through it all and I had a glass of water to see if this would lower his heart rate. It didn't, so I was unhooked and the sheet was taken to a Doctor. The doctor came and did an internal to see if any changes were being made to my cervix but luckily there wasn't.

It was about 10pm by this point and I was getting pretty exhausted. Im usually in bed by  9:00. I was then sent back for my second trace as his heart rate was on the high side the first time. I was in a room full of 'chavs' basically, that has fetched all their friends with them. Im not one to judge but when a pregnant women has been there 10 minutes and is complaining that she cant go out for 'a fag', it really makes me cringe!! Thankfully he seemed more settled on the second trace and I was allowed home. We picked Rio up and eventually climbed into bed at about 12:15am!

The tightenings are still happening but are back to how I suspect normal Braxton hicks to be in terms of frequency etc. I'm not taking any chances though, and have decided to be a lazy bum until i'm at least full term! Hahaha!!

I never had any of this with Rio, he was always so straight forward. This baba has been awkward since scan one..gahh I do love the little terror so much already!!

Fun in the sun and my big pregnant tum!

Tuesday, 20 May 2014

Its been a long time since I've sat down and blogged. Time is passing by so fast and before I know it another week has gone and i'm another week closer to being a mum of two. So, what with the rare lovely weather, I've just been spending as much quality time with Rio as I can. Blogging has taken a backseat but it hasn't been forgotten. It's still something I love but as I've always blogged to create a keepsake I personally don't mind the slip in posts/views etc. This is my life, this is real. I'm not going to just sit down and type something just so I have. And as much as I would love to update more/upload more photos.. its pretty time consuming and at the moment I'm heavily pregnant and my eyes are firmly trained on making sure Rio doesn't try unzipping the safety net of his new love. His trampoline. Parents..if you haven't already invested in one of these I suggest you do so now. BEST BUY EVER!

Here is a little snippet of our life lately..fun in the sun, and my big pregnant tum!

 

I spent the day reading on a blanket under a tree..occasionally peeping up at these two playing football/biking around. Pregnant life doesn't get much better than that!


Pregnancy at the moment mainly consists of acid, electric shocks in my cervix when I walk and achy hips at night. With every movement he seems to poke out of my skin, which is beginning to get extremely painful..im actually looking forward to the growth spurt I had at the end with Rio because at the moment he has no room at all and my stomach is so tight. Hello new stretch marks!!


And in true boy fashion, it was all finished off by helping Daddy wash the car!

30 weeks pregnant!

Monday, 28 April 2014

I'm really not enjoying third trimester this time around. The downsides of pregnancy seem to of jumped at me all at once and I'm getting exhausted. I know I shouldn't complain..being pregnant really is a magical thing, and there is nothing that I love more than having a bump and feeling Little One move inside of me but there comes a point when you just think, I've had enough.


I'm currently battling with acid, leg cramps, carpal tunnel, mild spd, nausea, exhaustion, headaches..the list goes on. So much so that I've booked some holidays and moved my maternity leave forward. Yesterday was my last day at work!

I know Little One isn't ready to come out yet, nor am I ready for him to, both mentally and physically with all the planning but I really am glad to hit the 30 week mark. Everything seems so much nearer now.

Rio's showing such interest in my bump and seems to really grasp that his little brother is in there and will be coming out..as an actual baby. For example if he kicks me really hard in the ribs and I gasp he'll say "is _____ coming out?" .."mummy's baby coming now?". He also keeps telling me that he'll need to hold his hand as there's "lots of cars". I know that the first time he meets him will be the most precious moment and I really cant wait for that. Our family of three, becoming a family of four!

A midnight trip to maternity assessment!

Wednesday, 23 April 2014

On Monday at work I was feeling pretty crampy, and generally just unwell. As we were short staffed I decided to soldier on to cover and was given extra little sit down/drink breaks to compensate.

Yesterday I didn't feel 'too bad' just really tired. Until I nodded off and the cramping started! At first I thought "okay these tightenings/Braxton kicks are uncomfortable" but within a matter of 15 minutes they were coming on so strong every few minutes and I was walking around panting and swaying to get through them..without passing out from going hot and clammy!

I was waiting for it to pass but when it didn't I told Craig to 'wake up a minute' and explained what was happening. I went downstairs for some calpol (haha I'm a wimp with tablets) and the whole journey there and back was one big cramp..so I didn't hesitate to grab my green notes on the way into our bedroom and give the hospital a ring. I explained/apologised I was probably being stupid but just wanted to ring and check with me only being 29+3. The lady asked me to come in for monitoring..so into the car we got.

Once there I spent half an hour on the monitors, in what looked like a janitors cupboard lol..not the quaint little bedded ward thing I had with Rio, holding the heartbeat monitor in place myself as it just didn't want to stay put. The monitor showed one contraction but other than that the pains I were getting weren't coming from my uterus, and little one was moving fine.

I was then given an internal 'pre term labour risk assessment' to highlight my chances of going into early labour...sooo glamorous as usual! But the swabs came back okay. I was so relieved, and am today albeit very tired and achy. Apparently I'm going through some kind of  bug which is obviously irritating my stomach more as there's a baby in there.

The one thing our midnight trip to maternity assessment did confirm was my hate for hospital stay, and the reason I wanted homebirth this time around in the first place. Leaving me yet again undecided on that front! Everything was just so blunt and blergh..and me & Craig really didn't enjoy being back in that atmosphere at all.

I left apologising to both the nurse and Craig and feeling stupid. But when it comes to my baby, id rather be safe than sorry every time!!

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